愛情也有訣竅:讓男生愛上你的10個小技巧
1. BE YOURSELF
1. 做自己All of my tips will give you tricks and ideas, but I mean for them all to be enhancements of who you really are, not make you into someone you’re not. If you’re fake, it doesn’t matter if you get a guy to fall in love with you, because he won’t really be in love with the real you. So, my first idea is to always be myself, no matter what, so a guy likes me for me.
這些建議能提供給你一些技巧，不過我希望它們對你來說是改善自己的建議，而不是讓你變成另外一個人。不過你不夠真誠，那麼不管哪個男生愛上你就都沒有意義了，因爲他愛上的不是真正的你。所以，我的第一條建議就是無論何時永遠做自己，這樣男生纔會因爲愛你而愛你。2. OPTIMIZE YOUR APPEARANCE
2. 精心打理自己
Whenever I’m trying to be more attractive to someone, I always optimize. Now, this doesn’t mean I starve myself to look thin, buy tons of new clothes, or get a dramatic hair cut. Instead, I just try to make myself look my best. This means a cute outfit that emphasizes my best features, combed and fixed hair, a little makeup, a clean bright smile, and a spritz of light perfume.
當我想要在某人面前顯得有魅力時，我總會精心打理自己。不是爲了減肥讓自己餓肚子，不是買一大堆新衣服，也不是剪一個誇張的髮型，而是努力讓自己看起來最好。我會選一套漂亮的衣服突出我的特點，梳理好髮型，化一些淡妝，保持笑容燦爛，再灑上一些香水。3. LISTEN, LISTEN, LISTEN
3. 傾聽，傾聽，傾聽Guys love to talk about themselves, and they think a girl who actively listens to them is so charming. So, I always listen more than I talk when I was trying to attract a guy. Talk about yourself, current topics, news events, etc about 20% of the time, and let him control the conversation about 80% of the time.
男生喜歡說自己的事，他們覺得認真聽他們說話的人非常有魅力。所以，當我試圖去吸引男生的時候聽的總比說的多。用20%的時間談談你自己，最近的熱點話題，最新發生的事件，讓他們控制80%的談話時間。4. LAUGH A LOT
4. 經常笑Guys are drawn to girls with a great sense of humor, and I think humor always begins with a lot of laughter. So, I always tried to laugh a lot and be easy to please when I was trying to attract a guy. If I want a guy to fall in love with me, I make sure to laugh and all his jokes!
男生會被有幽默感的女生吸引，而我認爲幽默感的第一表現就是展現笑容。因此當我想吸引男生時，我會經常笑，表現得容易相處。當我想要男生愛生我的時候，我會確保他每講一個笑話我都會用笑聲迴應。5. HAVE A GREAT ATTITUDE
5. 態度積極In my experience, guys like girls with cheerful, sunny dispositions. No one likes to hang out with a pessimistic, negative person. So, I always try to look on the bright side of life and be a “glass half full” person when I’m trying to catch a hot guy. People always tend to look my way more often and gravitate toward me when I’ve got a smile on my face!
根據我的經驗，男生喜歡性情開朗的女生。沒有人想要和悲觀的人一起出去玩。因此當我想要吸引很不錯的男生時，我總是試圖從好的一面看待生活，而不是從悲觀的角度看待問題。當我的臉上掛着笑容時，我的回頭率會更高，人們會更容易被我吸引。
6. BE SWEET
6. 親切Sometimes, I can be catty… all girls can be. When I’m with my girlfriends, we’ll gossip or trash some other girl for being rude or trashy, but that’s not a nice way to act. And, let me just tell you, I’ve learned that this kind of behavior doesn’t attract guys. Boys are drawn to girls who are sweet and don’t gossip, so keep cattiness and snotty comments to yourself around your new guy.
有時我是一個愛對人說三道四的女生…所有女生都是這樣。當我和女性朋友在一起時，我們會一起鄙視那些粗魯的女生，不過這樣對人其實並不好。讓我告訴你吧，我發現男生不喜歡這樣的行爲。吸引男生的是不在背後說三道四的親切的女生，所以在剛開始約會男生面前不要發表這些惡毒的評論，放在自己肚子裏就好了。7. FLIRT
7. 調情Some of my friends used to think flirting was beneath them, but I’m telling you – it works. Guys just love to be showered with attention and treated like a king. Toss your hair a little bit, throw your head back and laugh, grin a lot, and look up and him from under your eyelashes. Even those these old tricks might seem tried and true, they’re tried and true because they actually work!
我的一些朋友曾經對調情很不屑。不過告訴你，調情其實很管用。男生喜歡別人給他大量的關注，把他當成國王一樣看待。摸摸你的頭髮，把頭髮向後一甩然後對着他微笑，歪着頭看他。雖然這些看起來很老套，不過之所以老套是因爲這個方法真的有用！8. BE DIFFERENT
8. 與衆不同Trying to be unique and different is a way I’ve always tried to interest guys. I don’t want him to think that I’m just like all the other girls out there… instead, I want to be seen as charming, witty, and smart. So, I don’t talk about all those same old topics, like school gossip. Ask him about how he feels about current events or newsworthy stories and show him you’re worldy!
表現得與衆不同，這是我經常用來吸引男生的方法。我不想讓他用看待其他所有女生的眼光來看待我，我希望他把我看成一個有魅力、風趣聰明的人。因此我不會談論那些已經被說爛了的話題，例如學校裏的八卦等等。問問他對最近的熱點事件有什麼想法，有什麼有新聞價值的事件，讓他知道你是個關心時事的人！9. BE WITTY
9. 風趣As I said before, guys like a girl with a sense of humor. The best way to show you value humor is to laugh at his jokes, but I always try to crack a few jokes myself, too. Guys are drawn to girls with a funny side, and there’s nothing that draws two people closer than sharing a laugh. So, I always bust out a few comments or funny one-liners when I’m trying to draw a guy to me.
如剛纔我所提到的，男生喜歡有幽默感的女生。顯示你有幽默感的最好方法就是用笑來回應他說的笑話，不過我也經常試着自己講幾個笑話。男生喜歡懂得幽默的女生，另外也沒有什麼比一起大笑更能拉近兩人距離的事情了。10. INITIATE PHYSICAL CONTACT
10. 主動身體接觸Guys love physical touch, and touching someone is a quick way to develop intimacy. When I’m trying to attract a guy’s attention, I will look for ways to bring physical touch into play. For instance, I touch his arm lightly when I’m laughing at a joke, or I’ll slap him on the knee playfully if he says something funny, or I’ll touch his hand while I’m explaining something.
男生喜歡身體接觸，身體上的觸碰能夠讓兩人更加親密。當我想要吸引男生注意力的時候，我就會想辦法發展一些身體接觸。例如，當我聽到笑話大小的時候我會輕輕地接觸到他的肩膀，或者他在說一件趣事時我會拍拍他的大腿，或者我會在向他解釋一個事物時碰碰他的手。
