生活隨筆：不要和消極的人浪費時間
摘錄：總是投反對票的人是相當危險的。因爲他們在你開始追夢之前就想讓你的夢想破滅。他們會告訴你哪些事情不能做，哪些事情不應該讓其發生。實際上就是他們做不到或是不會做的，所以他們也不想讓你成功。
生活隨筆：不要和那些消極的人浪費時間
Recently, I caught myself wasting time dealing with a negative person.
I’m not talking about a web troll or the like. It was actually a business associate who was caught making negative comments behind others’ backs.
Do you have to deal with a negative person that takes up too much of your day?
最近，我發現我在和一些思想消極的人浪費時間。
我說的不是網絡或者是類似的問題。實際上指的就是那些說喪氣話的人。
你遇到過類似這樣會佔據你很多時間的人嗎?
You don’t have time for negative people in your life.
一生中沒有多少時間可以浪費在這些人身上。
Negative People are a Negative Impact
消極的人會帶來消極的影響
And the worst part of the episode was the individual in question got what they wanted… a reaction.
最早的部分就是那些人得到了他們想要的---一個反應。
Don’t Let the Critics Steal Your Time
不要讓批評佔據你的時間
They don’t have anything positive to contribute. They just want to complain. In fact, their greatest pleasure is not in their accomplishments, but in minimizing those of others.
消極的人沒有任何有積極意義的貢獻。他們只是想抱怨。實際上他們最大的樂趣不是他們取得多大的成就，而是將別人的成就減到最小。
Negative people don’t have anything positive to contribute. Don’t let them waste your time.
消極的人沒有任何有積極意義的貢獻，所以不要讓他們浪費你的時間。
“The best way to deal with negative people is not to deal with them.”
“應對思想消極的人的最好方法就是不和他們打交道。”
It’s best to let them go on their way.
最好就是讓他們走他們自己的路。
Don’t let them have your time, attention, or energy.
不要讓他們浪費你的時間、注意力和精力。
Here are just a few of the Negative People You Don’t Have Time For:
這裏有一些你不必和他們浪費時間的類型：
·Naysayers – The naysayers are a dangerous lot because they want to destroy your dreams before they even begin. They will tell you what you can’t do and what can’t be done. The truth is that they can’t or won’t do, so they don’t want you to succeed either.
·總是投反對票的人---這類人是相當危險的。因爲他們在你開始追夢之前就想讓你的夢想破滅。他們會告訴你哪些事情不能做，哪些事情不應該讓其發生。實際上就是他們做不到或是不會做的，所以他們也不想讓你成功。
·Complainers – The complainers spend more time complaining than?doing. They aren’t where they should be because of someone else. The rules aren’t fair. There is always an excuse.
·愛抱怨的人--愛抱怨的人會很多時間來抱怨而不是幹實事。因爲別人的關係所以他們總不在他們應該在的地方，這根本就是不公平的，因爲總有那麼多的藉口。
·Bullies – If you think bullying ends in school, you are mistaken. Some people in the workplace enjoy nothing more than abusing others. Of course, just as on the playground, bullies fold when someone finally stands up to them.
·惡霸---如果你認爲學校是惡霸的終結地，那你就錯了。有些人在工作的地方也只喜歡辱罵別人。當然，在外面的時候只要有人願意站出來惡霸就要吃虧了。
·Critics – Critics just love to tear down others and their efforts. They sit on the sidelines pointing out all the flaws they can see… real or not.
·吹毛求疵的人---喜歡批評別人的人喜歡毀掉自己和別人的努力成果。不管如何他們都喜歡坐在旁邊挑別人的毛病。
·Caustic People – These are some of the most toxic people you will encounter. They never have anything nice to say, but always manage to say something negative.
·刻薄的人---這類人會是你遇到的最沒營養的人。他們從不說好話總是想着說些消極的話。
No Time for Negative People
不要在消極的人身上浪費時間
Don’t let negative people tell you what you can’t do. (Ignore them.)
不要讓那些消極的人告訴你哪些是你不能做的。(忽略它)
Don’t let negative people bring down your mood. (Don’t listen to them.)
不要讓思想消極的人破壞你的心情。(不要聽他們的)
And definitely, don’t let them waste your time.
還有最重要的就是，不要讓他們浪費你寶貴的時間。v
