給未來的我一封信英語版

未來的自己還是怎樣我們無從得知，但是我們此刻可以給自己一個目標，看看以後的自己是否能達到。下面是本站小編跟大家分享的給未來的我的信，歡迎大家來閱讀學習。

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Dear Sherri,

By the time you read this you will be 30. At the age of 18 I had so many hopes and dreams about where you'd be, what you'd be doing and with whom you'd spend your life with.

Right now I hope that you have traveled and seen everything you've always wanted to, both in Canada and overseas, and maybe even settled down somewhere in Australia doing some research in the field of biology (genetics).

I hope you're married to the man of your dreams. The man of mine is Gwynn. He is originally from South Africa (another place I wish to visit).

You'll probably have two children of your own – a girl(Michaela Anne) and a boy (name yet to be decided).

If everything goes according to plan you'll be living in Australia in a big house in a small town outside of a big city with a lot of land, a dog, Gwynn and your two beautiful children. Hopefully you have a career in the medical field, maybe doing research in genetics. Gwynn will be a computer programmer and you will be doing alright for yourselves.

However, if things don't go according to plan for you, I wish you all the love, happiness and joy in the world and don't settle for anything less than the best since that is absolutely what you deserve.

Live long, be happy and live life to it's fullest.

Love Sherri "18"

Dear Future Husband,

親愛的未來老公：

I'm not yet sure whether you exist, though I'd like to believe that you do. While it may not make much logical sense, you've been on my mind lately. I haven't thought much about what you'll look like, how tall you'll be, or what type of car you'll drive — I'm not too concerned with the minor details. However, I have been thinking about a few things I want you to know.

我尚不確定你是否存在，雖然我願意相信你的存在。雖然有點不太符合邏輯，但你最近總出現在我腦海裏。關於你的長相、你的身高或者你開什麼車子我都沒想太多，我不太關心這些無關緊要的細節，然而我一直在想有幾件事你需要知道。

I want you to know that I am happy — right now — as a single, 26-year-old "millennial" who lives in a small apartment with a roommate and eats Chipotle for dinner more times than I care to admit. I love my job, I love my crazy friends and family, and I love spending quality time alone. I want you to know that my life has purpose apart from and before you. When we do meet one day, I want you to understand that I do not expect you to complete me, or to be my God. That's way too much pressure for anyone to bear. I am already complete.

我想要你知道，現在單身的我很幸福，一個26歲的千禧一代，和室友一起住在一個小公寓裏，晚餐吃墨西哥便餐的次數多得我自己都不願意去想。我喜歡自己的工作，喜歡瘋狂的朋友和家人，喜歡獨處的寶貴時光。我想要你知道沒有你的時候和遇到你之前我的生活都有目標。某天我們遇見了，我想讓你明白我不需要你來使我變得更完美或主宰我的生活，那樣我們的壓力都太大，我的生活已經很完整了。

I want you to know that I am not a trophy. Apparently, a lot of guys think this is a compliment. However, I want you to know that I have no desire to be seen as a trophy — a symbol of your own perceived success. I was not raised just to sit and look pretty on anybody's shelf. I want to have intellectual conversations. I want to help you chase your dreams. I want to be your partner, not your prize.

我想要你知道我不是你的戰利品。顯然很多男孩都覺着這是恭維，但我想要你知道我不想被人當做戰利品來象徵你自己的成功。我的成長不是僅僅爲了坐在別人的架子上成爲漂亮的擺設。我想要有頭腦的對話，想幫你追求夢想，想成爲你的搭檔，而不是你的獎品。

I want you to know that I am a feminist, and I want you to be a feminist, too. This doesn't mean I am anti-men, and it doesn't mean I think myself superior to you. It merely means that as a woman, I believe that I should have the power and the choice to define what it means to be a female. Maybe I will continue to work a full-time job for the duration of our marriage. Maybe, one day, I'll decide to take on the onerous yet rewarding task of being a stay-at-home mom. Either way, I'll be "working." I am hopeful that you and I will be able to come up with a solution that works best for our relationship, and for our future family, free from societal expectations.

我想要你知道我主張男女平等，希望你也是。這不是說我對男人反感或感覺自己比你優越。我只想說，作爲女人，我相信我應該有權力選擇去定義一個女人的意義。可能結婚以後我還會繼續全職工作，也可能有一天會決定選擇繁重但卻值得的全職太太的任務。無論選擇哪一個，那都是我的工作。我滿懷希望地認爲你和我能找到最適合我們自己和未來家庭的方式，而不會爲世俗所累。

I want you to know that while your opinions will be valuable to me, I will try my hardest not to exchange my personal identity for your stamp of approval. It has taken me over two decades to become comfortable in my own skin, and I don't ever want tocompromise that. I hope that you will love me whether I decide to wear my hair long or short. I hope that you will think I am beautiful whether I choose to walk around with a fresh face or eyes adorned with mascara. If we choose to have children, I hope that you will appreciate my body post-pregnancy just as much as you did the day we met.

我想要你知道雖然你的想法對我來說很重要，但我還是會盡最大努力不用自己的身份來換取你的認可。我花了20多年才適應自己，我可不想做出讓步。我希望無論我是決定留長髮還是短髮你都愛我;我希望無論我是選擇素顏還是刷上睫毛膏出門你都覺着我很美。如果我們想要寶寶，我希望你會像剛遇見我時那樣喜歡我懷孕後的身材。

I want you to know that I am not concerned with the size of my future engagement ring, and I will never pressure you to propose. Sure, I've thought about those things. I'm inundated daily with images of blushing brides and fairytale weddings. But at the end of the day, my goal is not to get married, but to stay married. If you promise to be my best friend for life, I promise not to get caught up in all the wedding madness.

我想要你知道我不在乎未來訂婚戒指的大小，也決不會給你壓力讓你求婚。是的，那些我都曾幻想過，我每天都不停幻想紅着臉的新娘和童話般的婚禮。但最終我的目標不是結婚，而是維持住婚姻。如果你答應作我一輩子最好的朋友，我就答應你不會陷入對婚禮的狂熱追求。

Most importantly, I want you to know that when we do fall in love, I will love youunconditionally. I don't expect you to be perfect, and I can guarantee you that I won't be either. I do, however, expect you to accept me fully for who I really am, and I promise to do the same for you. I will never try to change you, I will never let you feel unseen, and I will always be your number one fan.

最重要的一點就是，我想要你知道戀愛時我會無條件地愛你。我不期待你很完美，我敢保證我也不完美。然而我真地希望你能完全接受真正的我，我保證也如此對你。我永遠不會努力去改變你，永遠不會讓你感覺被忽視，我永遠都是你的頭號粉絲。

Yours truly,

愛你，

Perfectly Imperfect Me.

完美卻又不完美的我。

Dear Future us

When you look back on yourself in the past – 10, 20, 30 or more years ago – it’s surprising to see how much you have changed over time. Your experiences, your friends, your family and your work have all shaped who you are right now. But where will you be in another few years? How will you have changed? Reflective writing in your journal is an excellent way to think about what you want out of the future.

當你10年、20年或更多年後回顧過去時，你會吃驚地發現，隨着時光的流逝，你也發生了很大的變化。你的經歷、朋友、家庭和工作造就了現在的你。但是再過幾年你會在哪裏呢?你會如何變化呢?這樣反思性的寫作，會是思考未來你想要什麼的一種好的方式。

You may have already written a letter to your younger self before, conveying all the wisdom and perspective you wish you had had at the time. Now consider the opposite end of the spectrum; what would you say if you wrote your future self a letter?

你也許以前試過給過去的自己寫信，向年輕時的自己傳授一些人生的智慧和觀點，你希望那時候的自己就能知道這些。現在我們換個角度看問題，如果讓你給未來的自己寫封信，你會寫點什麼?

Just imagine writing a letter to your future self 5 years from now, then opening it at that exact moment 5 years down the road to see how much of it resonated with you. It is a useful supplementary tool to be used in goal achievement, because when you write the letter to your future self, it helps crystallize exactly how you anticipate yourself to become at that specific moment down the road.

想象一下，給5年後的自己寫一封信，當5年後你打開那封信時，你會產生多少共鳴。這是實現目標的一種有用的輔助工具，因爲當你給未來的自己寫信時，你會慢慢理清希望自己在人生旅途的那個特定時刻變成什麼樣子。

As you read the letter in the future, you can assess how many things match up (or not) vs. your expectations in the past and think about why that’s the case. Often times, the goals we set and our goal achievement process are subjected to a lot of changes along the way, due to varying obstacles, unanticipated circumstances and changing priorities. The letter gives you a macro-view of your initial vision and lets you recognize how your current vision differs from the past.

當你在未來讀這封信時，你可以看看有多少事情是像你過去期望的那樣，你也會思考爲什麼會這樣。很多時候，我們設定目標在實現的過程中會受到沿途中各種因素的影響，因爲會遇到各種各樣的困難、各種意外情況並需要不斷調整優先級。這封信能讓你從宏觀的角度上去看自己最初的願景，讓你意識到自己現在的想法和過去相比有多麼不同。

When you open the letter in the future, you as your future self gets to compare how you used to be in the past and compare with how you are currently. This lets you see in totality how much things have changed since then – and this can be a really intriguing experience. It’s interesting to just see how much you have grown/changed since you wrote the letter.

當你以後看信時，你會把過去的自己和現在的自己進行比較。這會讓你看清從寫信時起你發生了哪些變化，這種體驗是非常有趣的。光看看從你寫信開始發生了哪些變化就很有趣了。

Yours truly,

Perfectly Imperfect Me.

Dear Future us

When I grow up, I hope to be a tennis player like Li Na. After school, I always play tennis with my family.

They say O play it well. To be a good tennis player, I must keep on practicing. At the same time, I must learn English well.

That would be very cool if I could talk with the foreign players in English.

I am sure my dream will come ture someday.

Yours truly,

Perfectly Imperfect Me.