白色情人節讓他更愛你
1. “I trust you”
1. “我信任你”
There is nothing as nice as hearing someone tell you they trust you. This is a good way of letting your beloved know that you care. Men love to compete. They hate being losers. Tell him you trust him and know that he is strong enough to cope with all obstacles. It will only additionally motivate him to do his very best.
聽及他人向你表達信任是件再好不過的事了。這句話能讓你的愛人知曉你愛他。男人樂於競爭，討厭成爲失敗者。告訴他你相信他，並讓其明白他強到足以應對所有阻礙。這會激勵他盡其所能地做事。
2. “I'm proud of you”
2. “你是我的驕傲”
Acknowledge that your partner's accomplishments mean a lot to you. Whether those results are small or big, just tell your beloved that you are proud of him. Completing one's goals is a challenging task and we do need encouragement. All kinds of motivation additionally stimulate us to move forward. It costs nothing to say “I am proud of you” yet these words can turn the person's world positively upside down.
承認你另一半所取得的成就對你而言意義重大。無論其成就大小，你只需告訴你的愛人他是你的驕傲。達成目標是極具挑戰性的任務，我們需要他人的鼓舞。各種各樣的激勵格外促使我們前進。說句“我以你爲傲”並不損失什麼，但這些字句卻能使一個人變得更積極。
3. “I believe in you”
3. “我相信你”
This is another sentence that should be said by you more often. It sounds inspiring and motivates like nothing else. This phrase is especially helpful when your partner doubts himself and needs some psychological support from you. Be the motivator and your beloved will surely succeed in achieving his goals and dreams. Those goals can be small. Or you might find them unimportant. They can sound surreal and too hard to achieve. In either case be the person who inspires and helps to move forward.
這又是個你更該經常說的句子。這句話鼓舞人心，非常激勵人。特別是當你的另一半懷疑他自己，需要從你那獲得一些精神支柱時，它會特別有用。成爲那個激勵者，你的愛人肯定會順利完成目標、實現夢想。這些目標可能比較小，或者你可能覺得不重要；也可能聽起來不現實、難以達成。不管情況怎樣，激勵你的伴侶，幫助他向前吧！
4. “Thank you”
4. “謝謝”
Be thankful for what your partner does for you. Being grateful is very important. Let your significant other know that you appreciate his efforts. It does not really matter how small the thing is. The point is to notice all those things that are done to make you happy. Do not take anything for granted – there are too many people who do not have anyone to take care of them.
對你的伴侶爲你做的一切心懷感激。感激之心極爲重要，讓你重要的另一半知曉你欣賞他爲你付出的努力。事情大小並不重要，關鍵是你要明白：他爲你做的所有這些事都是爲了讓你開心。別把所有事都想得理所應當，（要知道）有很多人，沒什麼人關心愛護他們。
讓我們一起來聊聊那些表示‘感謝’的短語：
文章中一共出現了三組：Be thankful for something, be grateful for something and appreciate somebody’s efforts.
除此之外，表示‘感謝、感激’的表達還有：
A) Gratitude: the feeling of being grateful
Phrases： Express or show your gratitude to someone
In gratitude for something
Eg: we would like to express our gratitude to everyone for their generous donations.
我們想要對每一位捐贈者致以最誠摯的謝意
B) Be obliged to somebody
Eg: I am much obliged to you (Used to thank someone very politely)
請大家注意區別：Be/Feel obliged to do something，表示‘to have to do something because of a legal, professional or social rule.’有責任義務做某事
Eg: Members of parliament are obliged to declare all their financial interests.
議會成員有義務申報個人的所有財產狀況
Take somebody or something for granted
Definition：To expect that somebody or something will always be there when you need them or never think how important or useful they are. 表示：‘認爲…理所當然’
Eg: One of the problems with relationships is that after a while you begin to take each other for granted
5. “You are handsome”
5. “你好帥”
You might at first think that this kind of expression is too shallow and primitive. We don’t judge books by their cover, do we? Well, the truth is that we do pay attention to people’s appearance. Men need to know that they are desired. If you see that your man looks good, then why not tell him that he is attractive?
你開始可能會認爲這樣的表達太膚淺、太古老。我們不以貌取人，不是麼？其實呢，我們確實會在意人們的長相。男人需要知道他們是爲人們所期望的。如果你覺得你的男人很帥，那爲什麼不告訴他，他很有吸引力呢？
最後，咱們來聊聊那些夸人好看的話：
A) 最爲常見的：You look good; attractive, handsome‘誒喲，不錯哦~’
B) 升級版：You are gorgeous or amazing!
C) Local 版：You are a good catch! 你很迷人 & You are polished 你變帥了
6. “You are so talented”
6. “你太有才了”
Talents and skills are all our strengths. How good is he at cooking? Maybe your man loves gardening or taking pictures while travelling. Or, which is even more important, he is a professional who knows his job better than anyone else! No doubt there are plenty of activities he is good at – that's why you love that person. Acknowledge his talents and tell him that what he does makes you happy and means a lot to you.
天賦和技術都是我們的優點。他有多擅長燒菜？也許他熱愛園藝，或是喜歡在旅遊時攝影。或是更重要的，他很專業，比任何人都更瞭解自己的工作！毋庸質疑，你的另一半有很多擅長的東西，這便是你愛他的原因。承認他有才華，讓他知道他所做的事讓你開心，且對你意義重大。
