祕密賬戶 Secret Accounts

With the increasing number of trust issuein nowadays, people seems are not trusty as before. In the spirit ofdiscretion, every one become a cautious person, everything they do, they arenot only discreet but careful as well. At the same time, this behavior somehowaffects couples, now the conjugal secret accounts have become a hot topic, anddifferent people have different opinions on this problem.

隨着現在信任問題的不斷增加，人們看起來不像以前那樣可信了。爲了謹慎起見，每個人都變成了小心謹慎的人，他們不僅謹慎，也小心翼翼的。與此同時，這種行爲不知怎麼地也影響了夫妻，現在夫妻之間的祕密賬戶成了熱點，不同的人對這個問題有不同的看法。

People who are against with the conjugalsecret accounts hold the opinion that husband and wife should be honest to eachother. Once female and male are get marry, they are supposed to open heart toeach other, share everything together, including the money they earned.，and hide no secret from each other. Hence, a conjugal secret accountis not acceptable. This is a sign of disloyalty.

反對夫妻祕密賬戶的人認爲夫妻應當對對方坦誠。一旦女人和男人結婚，他們就應當對對方敞開心扉，一起分享所有東西，包括他們賺到的錢，而且也不能有祕密瞞着對方。因此，夫妻祕密賬戶是無法接受的。這是不忠的表現。

While some people hold the opposite viewsthat couples should save a private room for each other. Getting married doesn’tmean that you have to expose everything to your soul mate; sometimes a littlesecret will makes relationship delightful. A conjugal secret account is not abig deal since everyone has the desire to buy something that their husband orwife doesn’t agree to, as long as they earn the money for the secret accountsby themselves.

然而有些人持相反的觀點，他們認爲夫妻間要爲對方留點私人空間。結婚不意味着你要對你的靈魂伴侶暴露所有東西。有時候一些小祕密會讓夫妻關係變得令人愉快。夫妻祕密賬戶並不是什麼大事，因爲每個人都有他們想買的而且他們丈夫或妻子不同意買的東西。只要他們祕密賬戶的錢是自己賺的就成了。

Weighing up these two arguments intoaccount, I prefer the latter one. You don’t have to show everything to yoursoul mate and a conjugal secret accounts are acceptable. Cheating isdisloyalty, but not a secret account.

權衡這兩種觀點，我支持後者。你不用什麼都讓你的靈魂伴侶知道，夫妻祕密賬戶是可接受的。出軌纔是不忠，祕密賬戶不是。