30歲之前要懂得30個人生道理(1)
e comes a point in life when you.get tired of chasing everyone and trying to fix everything, but it’s not giving up. It’s realizing you don’t need certain people and things and the drama they bring.
1.人生中總有些時候你會厭倦追趕他人、追求完美，但這不等於自暴自棄。你只不過明白到，有些人、有些事以及他們所帶來的東西並不是你想要的。
a person wants to be a part of your life they will make an obvious effort to do so. Don’t bother reserving a space in your heart for people who do not make an effort to stay.
2.如果有人想成爲你生活中的一部分，他們的努力，你都會看得到。所以，別總想着在心裏騰個位置給那些不想待在你身邊的人。
you want to fly, you have to give up the things that weigh you down – which is not always as obvious and easy as it sounds.
3.如果你想飛翔，那就扔掉那些阻礙你騰空的東西。這一點往往是聽起來容易，做起來難。
g something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing.
4.去做，即使做錯也比什麼都不做要強得多。
y success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success. You don’t fail by falling down. You fail by never getting back up. Sometimes you just have to forget how you feel, remember what you deserve, and keep pushing forward.
5.每一次成功的背後都是一串串的失敗，而每一次失敗都更靠近成功。摔倒，並不意味着失敗；真正的失敗是摔倒後就再也不肯站起來。有時候，你所要做的不過是忘記自己的感受，記住你所應得的，勇往直前。 you get to know people with different ethnic backgrounds, from different cities and countries, who live at various socioeconomic levels, you begin to realize that everyone basically wants the same things. They want validation, love, happiness, fulfillment and hopes for a better future. The way they pursue these desires is where things branch off, but the fundamentals are the same. You can relate to almost everyone everywhere if you look past the superficial facades that divide us.
6.當你認識來自不同民族、城市、國家和社會階層的人之後，你才明白每個人的需求本質上都是一樣的，那就是獲得認可、愛情、幸福、滿足和對未來的美好希望。儘管他們滿足這些需求的方式各不相同，但實質卻沒有改變。當你透過表面看本質時，你就能把世界各地所有的人都聯繫到一起。
more things you own, the more your things own you. Less truly gives you more freedom.
7.擁有越多，限制越多。越少，自由越多。
e you’re busy looking for the perfect person, you’ll probably miss the imperfect person who could make you perfectly happy. This is as true for friendships as it is for intimate relationships. Finding a companion or a friend isn’t about trying to transform yourself into the perfect image of what you think they want. It’s about being exactly who you are and then finding someone who appreciates that.
8.你總是在尋覓最好的那個人，卻錯過了身邊能讓你真正快樂的人，儘管他們可能沒有那麼好。友情、愛情都是如此。尋找伴侶也好、朋友也好，不是要把自己變成他們希望的樣子，而是要保持真我，尋找那些能欣賞你的人。
tionships must be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. There’s no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason.
9.擇偶要慎重，寧缺毋濫。沒有必要着急，該來的總歸會來。緣分天註定，在對的時間遇到對的人。
ng a thousand friends is not a miracle. A miracle is making one friend who will stand by your side when thousands are against you.
10.朋友遍天下沒什麼了不起，真正了不起的是，有那麼一個朋友，當別人都棄你而去的時候還對你不離不棄。
