女性們分享了那些愛上自己的時刻
There comes a point in every woman's life when she finds her own enough-ness — when she realizes she doesn't need validation from a relationship, or anywhere for that matter. It's the watershed moment when she falls in love, not with someone else or with the idea of someone, but with herself.
每位女性都會經歷這樣的時刻：覺得有自己就足夠了——也就是當她發現自己不需要戀人的認可或其他人的認可時。這就是她愛上自己而不是愛上他人的轉折點時刻。If you're not there yet, don't worry... you'll get there. We each come to that place in our own special time and, well, it's always worth the wait. In the meantime, you can glean inspiration from the following real women who shared that turning point in their lives.
如果你還沒有這種經歷，請別擔心，終有一天你會愛上自己。每個人愛上自己的時刻都與他人不同，而且這一刻總是值得等待。同時，你也可以從其她女性的實例中獲得靈感來源。
1. With age, comes wisdom
1. 隨着年齡增長的是智慧
"For me, the turning point came when I hit the age of 30. I left all problems from my 20s with my 20s. I felt lighter, happier — just all-around good. From where I was then to where I am now, words can't describe the change in the way I feel about myself. I don't care what people think now... I'm always gonna do me and be me."
“對我而言，我在30歲的時候愛上了自己。我將20多歲時遇到的問題留在了過去。我變得更加輕鬆，也更加快樂——整個人都好起來了。從20多歲一路走到30多歲，我已經無法用言語形容我自身發生的變化。現在的我根本就不在乎他人的想法。我永遠都會按照自己的原則辦事。”2. Build others up
2. 鼓舞他人"I think a watershed moment for me was after a home run derby in a softball tournament when I was in high school. I had always excelled at sports but never realized the impact my game had on those around me, until that day. After the derby, a group of young tee ball players (girls and boys) came up to me and asked for my autograph. I had never once thought about the eyes watching me or the difference I could make until then. It was from that moment on that I made sure I was a positive role model for young female athletes. Knowing you have the power to influence the trajectory of someone else's life by leading by example is extremely powerful for your own psyche. It makes you walk a little taller and love yourself even more than you might have before. I might not be famous today with people asking for my autograph, but I use every chance I get to try to build up female athletes at all levels."
“我在高中參加了一次本壘打壘球競賽後愛上了自己。我一直擅長體育運動，但在那天以前，我從未意識到自己的這份熱情對周圍人產生的影響。在本壘打競賽後，一羣年輕的球手（男孩兒女孩兒都有）來到我身邊，請我給他們簽名。直到那時，我才意識到原來有那麼多雙眼睛在盯着我以及我能起到的積極作用。從那時起，我確保自己成爲年輕女性運動員的楷模。知道自己可以通過以身作則而改變他們的人生軌跡也深深震撼着我的內心。這會讓你比以往更加努力，也更愛自己。現在的我也許並不出名，人們也不會請我給他們簽名，但我會利用每一次機會，爲每一位女性運動員打氣加油。”
