防騙手冊:教你實用15招 輕鬆揪出真騙子
Quite often a person feels the need to lie about something - if you are the person being lied to, there are a few simple tips for catching the liar out. This is a list of the top 15 tips.
人們經常會覺得需要撒謊——如果你是被騙的那方，下面就教你15招來揪出騙子。
1. Physical expression will be limited and stiff, with few arm and hand movements. Hand, arm and leg movements are toward their own body as the liar tries to take up less space。
1. 肢體語言很拘束，僵硬，手臂和手不怎麼動。手、手臂和腿的移動都靠向自己的身體，因爲撒謊者設法佔據更少的空間。
2. A person who is lying to you will avoid making eye contact。
2. 騙你的人通常會避免和你眼神接觸。
3. Hands touching their face, throat & mouth. Touching or scratching the nose or behind their ear. Not likely to touch his chest/heart with an open hand。
3. 手觸碰自己的臉、喉嚨和嘴巴。碰或抓鼻子或耳後。他們不太可能去碰自己的胸膛/心臟。
4. Timing is off between emotions gestures/expressions and words. Example: Someone says, “I love it!” when receiving a gift and then smiles after making that statement, rather then at the same time the statement is made。
4. 手勢/表情和說話的時機不對。例如：某人在收到禮物後說：“我喜歡這個！”，之後再露出笑容，而不是在說話的同時露出微笑。
5. Gestures/expressions don't match the verbalstatement, such as frowning when saying “I love you。”
5. 手勢/表情和嘴上說的不匹配，例如說：“我愛你”的時候皺着眉頭。
6. Expressions are limited to mouth movements when someone is faking emotions (like happy, surprised, sad, awe, ) instead of the whole face. For example; when someone smiles naturally their whole face is involved: jaw/cheek movement, eyes and forehead push down, etc。
6. 當一個人撒謊時，他的面部表情會侷限在嘴巴處(像高興、欣喜、悲傷和敬畏)，而不是整張臉。例如，當一個人自然微笑時，整張臉都會有反應：下巴/臉頰會動，眼睛和前額會向下等。
7. A guilty person gets defensive. An innocent person will often go on the offensive。
7. 一個罪犯會選擇自衛，而一個無辜的人通常會選擇反擊。
8. A liar is uncomfortable facing his questioner/accuser and may turn his head or body away。
8. 撒謊者面對發問者/原告會不安，他可能會將頭或身體轉向一邊。
9. A liar might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, etc。) between themselves and you。
9. 撒謊者可能會下意識的放一樣東西(書、咖啡杯等)在他們和你之間。
10. A liar will use your words to make answer a question. When asked, “Did you eat the last cookie?” The liar answers, “No, I did not eat the last cookie。”
10. 撒謊者會用你的話來回答問題。當被問到：“你吃了最後那塊曲奇了嗎？”撒謊者會說：“沒有，我沒有吃最後那塊曲奇。”
11. A statement with a contractionis more likely to be truthful:"I didn't do it" instead of "I did not do it"。
11. 使用縮寫式來陳述似乎更值得信任："我沒做過"而不是"我沒有這麼做過"。
12. Liars sometimes avoid "lying" by not making direct statements. They implyanswers instead of denying something directly。
12. 撒謊者有時候利用不直接回答來避免"撒謊"。他們不直接否認什麼，而是將答案暗示出來。
13. The guilty person may speak more than natural, adding unnecessary details to convince you… they are not comfortable with silence or pauses in the conversation。
13. 罪犯可能會比平時說的更多，添加更多不必要的細節來說服你……他們會因爲對話中的沉默或停頓而不安。
14. A liar may leave out pronouns and speak in a monotonoustone. When a truthful statement is made the pronoun is emphasized as much or more than the rest of the words in a statement.
14. 撒謊者會省去代名詞，並且以一個音調說話。當說實話時，人們會使用不少代名詞，並且這些詞會發重音。
15. Words may be garbled and spoken softly, and syntaxand grammar may be off. In other-words, his sentences will likely be muddled rather than emphasized。
15. 撒謊者可能用詞混淆，聲音放輕，句子的結構和語法也會很混亂。換句話說，他的句子亂七八糟，也沒有什麼要強調的重點。
