女性假裝性高潮探祕 源於缺乏安全感

It is news that will undoubtedly be met with great scepticism by the fairer sex. But scientists claim the real reason why women fake orgasms in bed is because they are riddled with insecurities and have a fear of intimacy. While 60 per cent of women claim to have faked ecstasy during intercourse or oral sex, researchers believe this has little to do with protecting their partner's sensitive feelings.

最近，有研究報道稱美劇《慾望都市》熱播10年來，一定程度上讓喜愛該劇的女性們實現了“性解放”，但凡看過該劇的女性們變得更加能夠和閨蜜或者友人“談論性”了。關於兩性之間的私密行爲，“好事”的科學家們又經研究得出了結論稱女性“僞裝性高潮”有很大的原因是因爲極度缺乏安全感以及對親密行爲有一種“恐懼感”而自然而成的。據統計，有60%的女性承認曾經僞裝過性高潮，儘管研究者聲稱該舉動無助於保護另一半對於“雄性”的信心，或者根本就是磋商另一半的敏感的心而已。

Instead, according to a study, many girls pretend to climax due to their own fear of intimacy; or because they feel insecure about how their bodies react during intercourse; or simply because they want it to end as soon as possible. Lead researcher Erin Cooper, of Temple University in Pennsylvania, told LiveScience: 'This is something that we talk about happening in popular culture, in the movies and magazines. 'We know that this is pretty prevalent in our culture, but we don't know much about it from a scientific standpoint. That to me is a real catastrophe.'

據研究稱，女性們因爲天生對親密行爲有一種恐懼感，還是很怕看到自己的肢體的反映狀態，所以會假裝配合讓事情儘早結束。牽頭實驗的研究員 Erin Cooper稱：“雖然兩性之間的關係在電影或者雜誌上已經呈現鋪天蓋地的狀態，大家在公開狀態下談論性也不再會是一件令人難堪的事情。我們卻很少用一種科學的角度去看待它，這個實驗的調查結果是顯著的。”

She interviewed 366 women aged between 18 to 32, all of whom readily admitted to faking orgasms. The volunteers were asked to explain the reasons why they pretended to orgasm and how they felt about sexual intimacy. Those who feared intimacy faked climaxing in order to emotionally keep their partner at arm's length, while others were doing it to cover up their own embarrassment at not feeling physically aroused.

據悉，她針對366名年齡段從18歲到32歲的女性展開調查，讓人感到不可思議的是，所有的被調查都承認僞裝過性高潮。但是，但被調查者在被問道爲什麼她們會做出這樣的舉動時，她們的答案還是讓調查者吃驚。因爲她們的答案是爲了維護另一半的尊嚴，或者說是保持一定的關係而自然做出的行爲。Cooper said: 'Women who have a hard time getting close to other people on an emotional level it seems now are also having a hard time getting close to other people on a sexual level. 'They are having a hard time across the board, and may be very much in need of intervention to help them out in another domain.

'This could either be the cause or the symptom - we don't know enough about it yet.'

調查者Cooper說：“女性的性格有很多種，一般來說，很難對另一半在‘情感上’產生互動的女性，另一半們也千萬別指望她們在‘物理上’會產生什麼樣的效果。要跨過這樣的障礙對於她們來說十分困難，或許她們需要一種幫助，但是至今我們還不曉得那東西究竟是什麼。”

對於上了年紀的女性，在度過了60到70歲之後，皺紋出現的情況將減少。